<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676</id><updated>2012-02-16T08:40:22.896-08:00</updated><category term='Business'/><category term='Social Media'/><category term='Sales'/><category term='Life'/><category term='Parenting'/><title type='text'>Nathan's Tires</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>15</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-7778288056323727310</id><published>2010-05-11T09:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-11T11:16:33.817-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><title type='text'>CIO's need to sell the cloud too...</title><content type='html'>I want to know as much about something new as I possibly can and this cloudy stuff is no different. &amp;nbsp;Trying to understand how and when it will impact businesses is like wishing for snow days. &amp;nbsp;Which raises the question...just what is holding back technology leaders from migrating to the cloud?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a sales professional it is critical to learn how to paint an accurate picture to a prospects (for the CIO its your CEO's and CFO's), they need to SEE why they should choose&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.profitability.net/"&gt;my solution&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;Getting a prospect to choose your products or services is partly art and partly learned skills. &amp;nbsp;Debating which is a better quality (Art versus Skill) is like debating &lt;a href="http://yoursalesplaybook.com/which-day-is-the-best-day-to-call-a-prospect/"&gt;what's the best day for cold calling.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowing who you are as a salesperson is what will make you successful. &amp;nbsp;I am certainly not &amp;nbsp;trying to insult my CIO friends, hell you forgot more about technology while you were shaving this morning than I will ever know, and most of you have spent a lifetime developing your expertise. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I understand that being a CIO takes wisdom, experience, business&amp;nbsp;savvy...but how often do you find yourself working on your ability to &lt;a href="http://www.24techniquesforclosingthesale.com/"&gt;close the sale&lt;/a&gt;! &amp;nbsp;Many of you have several projects on your plate and determining which will provide the greatest benefit to your company will require analysis, calculations and "gut" feelings that only you can make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There have been a few studies about&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.thenewnewinternet.com/2010/04/13/risks-outweigh-benefits-in-cloud-computing-it-professionals-say/"&gt;"Risk outweighing the benefits"&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;of cloud computing. &amp;nbsp;I am still struggling with why the "cloud" has yet to live up to the hype.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ultimately, your&amp;nbsp;assessment&amp;nbsp;will drive the decision, but sometimes generating interest and enthusiasm for a project is no different than getting your foot in the door. &amp;nbsp;So spead the word, and by the way...welcome to sales. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="344" style="background-image: url(http://i1.ytimg.com/vi/XdBd14rjcs0/hqdefault.jpg);" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XdBd14rjcs0&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XdBd14rjcs0&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1" width="425" height="344" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-7778288056323727310?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/7778288056323727310/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/cios-need-to-sell-cloud-too.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/7778288056323727310'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/7778288056323727310'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/cios-need-to-sell-cloud-too.html' title='CIO&apos;s need to sell the cloud too...'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-3085383042185056151</id><published>2010-05-07T12:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T13:08:16.329-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Sales shouldn't be hard...just hard work!</title><content type='html'>Most of my friends consider a career in sales "easy" money...roll into the office around 9am, long lunches and afternoon golf sessions...r &amp;nbsp;i &amp;nbsp;g &amp;nbsp;h &amp;nbsp;t...unless you are selling Cisco in 1999, its hard work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had been in slump over the winter and happen to get invited to join a &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/groups?about=&amp;amp;gid=1832739&amp;amp;trk=anet_ug_grppro"&gt;linkedin group&lt;/a&gt;, this nutty guy was talking about &lt;a href="http://yoursalesplaybook.com/tag/jedi-mastery/"&gt;jedi mastery&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://yoursalesplaybook.com/tag/whup-ass/"&gt;kicking ass&lt;/a&gt;, and called himself &lt;a href="http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/"&gt;Uncle Paul&lt;/a&gt;...I figured what the heck. &amp;nbsp;I will check it out, and either block him or learn something new...I was in a serious need for a momentum swing. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I read several post before it dawned on me...basics. &amp;nbsp;The basic rules of sales have NEVER changed, what makes a person successful in sales is A C T I V I TY. &amp;nbsp;There are 3 things that will get you out of a slump:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &amp;nbsp;You don't need to bore me with&amp;nbsp;arguments&amp;nbsp;about &lt;a href="http://www.focus.com/questions/sales/social-media-vs-cold-calling-reach-out-key-decision-makers/"&gt;social networking versus cold calling.&lt;/a&gt; &amp;nbsp;The fact is, do what comes naturally and what you are good at....and seriously...do it! &amp;nbsp;Set aside time everyday to connect with outsiders by calling, connecting or networking, whatever your method, ACTIVITY DRIVES OPPORTUNITY.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &amp;nbsp;Be an expert in your field, the &lt;a href="http://www.gladwell.com/outliers/outliers_excerpt1.html"&gt;10,000 hour rule&lt;/a&gt;!&amp;nbsp;You don't need to understand the details of a specific technology, but you better understand how your products and services can solve &lt;a href="http://www.allvoices.com/news/5100276-top-12-business-challenges-in-2010"&gt;complex business issues&lt;/a&gt;. &amp;nbsp;And don't be afraid to turn &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;down&lt;/span&gt; the sales ratchet, instead, get involved in professional organizations. &amp;nbsp;Stop treating them as opportunities to sell your product, but as opportunities to work side by side and get to know your prospects! &amp;nbsp;What better way to gain respect and trust, than by working on committees with business leaders who are passionate about the same things you are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &amp;nbsp;Get motivated! Kick up the volume and let &lt;a href="http://www.acdc.com/"&gt;"Rock N Roll Ain't Noise Pollution"&lt;/a&gt; be heard around the office, head phones are a good option too. &amp;nbsp;I tend to watch some of my favorite movie clips to get me in the mood to cold call, like &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WO4tIrjBDkk"&gt;Al Pachino's Speach&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So sales is hard work, but it can be fun and rewarding too. &amp;nbsp;Always be enthusiastic about your approach, have a solid plan of attack, stay active and find sources of motivation to work through the tough times. &amp;nbsp;Of course getting a jump start from a crazy sales professional like &lt;a href="http://yoursalesplaybook.com/"&gt;Uncle Paul&lt;/a&gt; helps too.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-3085383042185056151?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/3085383042185056151/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/sales-shouldnt-be-hardjust-hard-work.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/3085383042185056151'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/3085383042185056151'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/sales-shouldnt-be-hardjust-hard-work.html' title='Sales shouldn&apos;t be hard...just hard work!'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-4227571555057077109</id><published>2010-05-03T10:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T12:54:59.713-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Some People have connections...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I am not sure how it works...well I know how it works, you have to know someone who knows someone to get information before the rest of us. &amp;nbsp;This is definitely the case with&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sales2.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Nigel Edelshain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;, no sooner did I get his latest &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/share?viewLink=&amp;amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Flnkd%2Ein%2FQJ4kRp&amp;amp;sid=s23060097&amp;amp;uid=cfb29a50-6780-45a2-b42b-44d9cf3a1093&amp;amp;urlhash=Xi-v&amp;amp;redirect=&amp;amp;trk=sae_i_m_sd_val"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;post&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;, then I get an update from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.linkein.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;linkedIn&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; about the enhance capability of using the Company Watch feature! &amp;nbsp;Damn, I'm not sure who Nigel knows, but seriously to get his post out before LinkedIn. &amp;nbsp;My hats off. &amp;nbsp;In case you missed it here are a few of the highlights:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt; is, in my opinion, the number one tool for B2B sales people to have in their tool box when trying to get into target accounts. Primarily this is because it allows you to build and leverage&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;. But as &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt; continues its relentless pursuit of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;Facebook&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt; it keeps adding features that give real-time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;updates&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;.These real-time updates are a perfect source of&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;trigger events&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;"Trigger events" are changes in your prospect's environment. These changes cause opportunities for you as a salesperson as they create new pains or needs that your product or service may be able to address."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; color: #333333; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You should &lt;a href="http://www.sales2.com/index.php/articles/nigels-sales-2-blog/658-prospecting-trigger-events-new-linkedin-way"&gt;read on&lt;/a&gt;..Great stuff Nigel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 15px; margin-top: 10px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, 'Nimbus Sans L', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, 'Nimbus Sans L', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-4227571555057077109?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/4227571555057077109/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/some-people-have-connections.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/4227571555057077109'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/4227571555057077109'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/some-people-have-connections.html' title='Some People have connections...'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-9201362849916974158</id><published>2010-04-16T18:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:01:28.550-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Why blended families make you a better parent.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;"Mom, I hate you!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;"Mom, where are my shoes"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;"Mom, she took my blanket"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Mom, Mom MOM......&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;MOM!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I swear this weekend I heard 2,315 times&amp;nbsp;"Mom!" &lt;br /&gt;and 325 &lt;br /&gt;"Mom, tornado&amp;nbsp;is ...!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I listened and watch&amp;nbsp;Tornado vie for eveyones attention, I show restraint...and&amp;nbsp;choose not to engage.&amp;nbsp; I have&amp;nbsp;come to accept the way I might have&amp;nbsp;dealt with&amp;nbsp;Tornado is way different than my &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/gadgetmom6"&gt;wife&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; This is standard practice in our relationship, when the primary parent is engaged the "other" parent simply watches and takes notes.&amp;nbsp; Trust me...it is way better to be on the notetaking side.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taking notes comes from a variety of sources.&amp;nbsp; Setting proper expectations based on &lt;a href="http://www.helpguide.org/mental/blended_families_stepfamilies.htm"&gt;age and gender&lt;/a&gt;, knowing each others &lt;a href="http://pediatrics.about.com/od/infantparentingtips/a/04_pntg_styles.htm"&gt;parenting style&lt;/a&gt;, and there is the insanely stupid &lt;a href="http://parenthood.library.wisc.edu/Bliss/Bliss.html"&gt;10 steps for steps&lt;/a&gt;...like being a parent is&amp;nbsp; comparable to baking a cake.&amp;nbsp; I find reading &lt;a href="http://life.familyeducation.com/stepfamilies/discipline/47599.html"&gt;Family Education&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;provides the best and most common sense approach and&amp;nbsp;compliments the family culture we are working hard to create...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;..but I do love cake, chocolate of course...&lt;a href="http://www.frischs.com/signature_foods.htm"&gt;hot fudge cake&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.buttermilkpress.com/images/Outback_Chocolate_thunder_from_down_under.jpg"&gt;hot lava cake&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.gourmetsouth.com/t//chocolathunder_0192_4250.jpg"&gt;triple layer cake&lt;/a&gt;, and yes I always struggle walking into &lt;a href="http://www.speedway.com/"&gt;speedway&lt;/a&gt; past the &lt;a href="http://www.freshchocodiles.com/hostess/zingers.html"&gt;zingers&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; I once walked into my buddies house, no one was home, lucky me found a freshly baked cake...I had two pieces.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;Some quick background, we have a family of eight!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Joyful (10 mos, girl),&amp;nbsp;Nails (10, boy)&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Pleaser (12, boy), Princess (12, girl)&amp;nbsp;Pleaser and Princess are twins, Tornado (5, boy) and&amp;nbsp;Scorekeeper (10, girl).&amp;nbsp; I know,&lt;a href="http://www.lyricsondemand.com/tvthemes/thebradybunchlyrics.html"&gt; "Here's a story, of a lovely lady..."&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; Drop dead...like that has anything to do with blending a family.&amp;nbsp; My &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/gadgetmom6"&gt;wife&lt;/a&gt; and I have been at this blending the family thing for 3 years...somedays there is actually a light at the end of the tunnel, there has yet to be a day that looked like the &lt;a href="http://www.bradyworld.com/"&gt;Brady Bunch&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once we figured out our parenting styles, we began having nightly conversations about what we see in each other&amp;nbsp;when we&amp;nbsp;parent.&amp;nbsp; What a great way to gain insight into what is working.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I always thought I was teaching my kids about&lt;a href="http://www.bible-guide-online.com/famous-bible-quotes-bible-verses-about-love.html"&gt; respect, kindness, love, patience and self-control&lt;/a&gt;. In fact, it was not uncommon for me to talk/lecture my kids about&amp;nbsp;respect,&amp;nbsp;but I soon realized&amp;nbsp;from our nightly re-caps,&amp;nbsp;that I&amp;nbsp;was&amp;nbsp;not&amp;nbsp;calling out the dis-respect&amp;nbsp;when I saw it.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Even a rolling of Princesses eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was a day I saw something amazing, I'm not sure what the exact circumstances, but one day I saw patience in my wife. The kind of patience that I have never seen before...in the midst of complete tyraid from tornado, she never lost her composure and stood her ground. She never raised her voice or even sounded mad ...and eventually he got his water and returned to bed. In that instant she taught tornado self-control, patience and understanding...not that he was going to wake up and have those qualities, but over time....he will.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So there is was for me, front and center, staring me smack dap&amp;nbsp;in the face...&lt;a href="http://parentingteens.about.com/od/disciplin1/a/behaviormodel.htm"&gt;modeling behavior&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of arguing with my kids about their behavior, I began to model.&amp;nbsp; When I point out &lt;a href="http://life.familyeducation.com/behavioral-problems/bad-habits/40179.html?page=3"&gt;disrespecful behaviour&lt;/a&gt;, I am calm, respectful and coach-like.&amp;nbsp; We openly discuss &lt;a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/empathy"&gt;empathy&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; On the other side of the disrespectful behavior&amp;nbsp;is another person.&amp;nbsp; Another person, just like them, that has feelings.&amp;nbsp; Laughing at a 5 year old can be hurtful, complaining about the food in front of you hurts the chef, calling your brother stupid is hurtful, making fun of someone is hurtful.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have started to see progress, not so much in that we don't see disrespect anymore, but the angst between my wife and I is certainly gone.&amp;nbsp; We see it, We aknowledge it, We coach it, We punish it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Certainly not everything is perfect.&amp;nbsp; Our blended family is full of personalities, temperments and talents that challenge us everyday.&amp;nbsp; We&amp;nbsp;are learning that blended means a lot of things, but nothing is as important as blending our parenting styles to teach values to our children.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-9201362849916974158?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/9201362849916974158/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/03/why-blended-families-make-you-better.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/9201362849916974158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/9201362849916974158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/03/why-blended-families-make-you-better.html' title='Why blended families make you a better parent.'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-3148372533231808909</id><published>2010-04-10T11:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:02:31.209-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Clouds produce more than precipitation</title><content type='html'>Those of us that live in &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Midwestern_United_States"&gt;midwest&lt;/a&gt;, not neccessarily the geographical midwest, but the "real" midwest, the one&amp;nbsp;that has all&amp;nbsp;four seasons....seasons filled with snow, rain, heat, cold, flowers, green grass and miles of corn fields.&amp;nbsp; I was raised in a &lt;a href="http://maps.google.com/places/us/oh/new-carlisle?hl=en&amp;amp;gl=us"&gt;small midwestern&amp;nbsp;town&lt;/a&gt; and had a Grandfather that was a tremendous farmer, I had uncles that farmed...the weather and clouds were mainstays of our conversations.&amp;nbsp; In fact, we were dependent on clouds, clouds created the neccessary weather that feed our farms.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Its funny...I am not close to being a farmer,&amp;nbsp;but finding myself in the middle of cloud&amp;nbsp;discussions,&amp;nbsp;has a little bit of irony for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am currently going through a series of personal beta technology movements...&lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/"&gt;tweeting&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/"&gt;blogging&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/"&gt; linkedin&lt;/a&gt;, and the most painful, I've moved everything I do to the cloud.&amp;nbsp; Yes...I am flying solo on a mini &lt;a href="http://us.acer.com/acer/productv.do?LanguageISOCtxParam=en&amp;amp;kcond61e.c2att101=63750&amp;amp;sp=page16e&amp;amp;ctx2.c2att1=25&amp;amp;link=ln438e&amp;amp;CountryISOCtxParam=US&amp;amp;ctx1g.c2att92=447&amp;amp;ctx1.att21k=1&amp;amp;CRC=1346651341"&gt;notebook, an Acer AS1410.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; Nifty little machine that is fast, lightweight and extremely portable. &amp;nbsp;I need to give a nod to &lt;a href="http://www.microsoft.com/windows/windows-7/?icid=win7van"&gt;Windows 7&lt;/a&gt; too...I am a fan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So the only application I am running locally&amp;nbsp;is &lt;a href="http://www.ie8optimized.com/MSN/?pkw=windows%20explorer%208|&amp;amp;vendor=google&amp;amp;ocid=iSEM_G_MSNOIE8&amp;amp;mtcr=b|4062282459&amp;amp;refcd=gobr5014dcee39&amp;amp;FORM=M7IE81&amp;amp;PUBL=GOOGLE&amp;amp;crea=gobr5014dcee39"&gt;Internet Explorer 8&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; All my docs are at &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/"&gt;google&lt;/a&gt;, my mail is &lt;a href="http://www.profitability.net/content/cincinnati-hosted-exchange"&gt;Profitabilities Hosted Exchange&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;My primary business application is a custom built web based tool for quoting and billing.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I wonder how many users are like me?&amp;nbsp; I do use &lt;a href="http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/default.aspx?ofcresset=1"&gt;word&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and &lt;a href="http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/default.aspx?ofcresset=1"&gt;excel&lt;/a&gt;,&amp;nbsp;but &lt;a href="https://www.google.com/accounts/ServiceLogin?service=writely&amp;amp;passive=true&amp;amp;nui=1&amp;amp;continue=http%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2F%3Fhl%3Den%26tab%3Dwo&amp;amp;followup=http%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2F%3Fhl%3Den%26tab%3Dwo&amp;amp;ltmpl=homepage&amp;amp;rm=false"&gt;google docs&lt;/a&gt; is sophisticated enough to handle any word processing or spreadsheeting. (spell check says not a&amp;nbsp;word, beg to differ!)&amp;nbsp; Easy transition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In just a day I gained speed and effieciencies.&amp;nbsp; I am enjoying the benefit of connecting to wifi anywhere and having everything, even if I don't have my notebook.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Long before I made the conscious decision&amp;nbsp;to move everything to the cloud, I realized I've been relying on it for years.&amp;nbsp; In 2003 I began using &lt;a href="http://www.turbotax.com/"&gt;TurboTax Online&lt;/a&gt;...one of the most important things a person has to do is &lt;a href="http://www.irs.gov/"&gt;file taxes&lt;/a&gt;...I do it in the&amp;nbsp;cloud.&amp;nbsp; Every year my prior return is there, I log in, update, submit, done.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bottomline:&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;The cloud has been around, I need to pay closer&amp;nbsp;attention, and continue to carry&amp;nbsp;the&amp;nbsp;family torch...watching the&amp;nbsp;clouds role in.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-3148372533231808909?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/3148372533231808909/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/clouds-produce-more-than-precipitationd.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/3148372533231808909'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/3148372533231808909'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/clouds-produce-more-than-precipitationd.html' title='Clouds produce more than precipitation'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-681717304836410509</id><published>2010-04-08T10:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T13:01:49.901-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Sales Playbook...Uncle Paul Just Gets It.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I have been following my brother in sales &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/profile?viewProfile=&amp;amp;key=24261883&amp;amp;authToken=ATQ3&amp;amp;authType=name&amp;amp;goback=.con"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Uncle Paul Castain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; for several months. &amp;nbsp;I don't REALLY no Uncle Paul, but he is clearly either studied the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.briantracy.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;psychology of selling&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; or he has a ton of experience and is kind enough to share is his thoughts and wisdom. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Do you find yourself trying to justify reason why not to make the call, &amp;nbsp;Mondays are bad because everyone is grumpy getting back to work and Tuesday, no way!! Everyone is busy trying to fix all the issues from Monday...so on and so forth. &amp;nbsp;C'mon, don't act surprised, we've all had those debates.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;In this post he answers the age old question...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://yoursalesplaybook.com/which-day-is-the-best-day-to-call-a-prospect/"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;what day is the best day to cold call?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Once again he hits a homerun.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-681717304836410509?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/681717304836410509/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/sales-playbookuncle-paul-just-gets-it.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/681717304836410509'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/681717304836410509'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/05/sales-playbookuncle-paul-just-gets-it.html' title='Sales Playbook...Uncle Paul Just Gets It.'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-6543450552660870738</id><published>2010-03-29T23:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:03:13.522-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Dear Twitter...</title><content type='html'>&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;So my &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/BenABaker" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;co-worker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; has been after me to give twitter a serious trial. &amp;nbsp;I committed to giving it 30 days to see if it would stick for me. &amp;nbsp;My letter to Twitter;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Dear Twitter:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I am sorry.  I have spoken so poorly of you the last 6 months.  My first impression was wrong, you are not a fad, you are not annoying, you are not texting, spam, noise, wasteful or redundant, you are not a toy, you are not passing through, you are not for everyone.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;You're an outlet, time saver, answerer, questioner, friendship maker, informative, inspirational, thoughtful, creative an innovative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Are you interested in life and how it is just damn hard. A place where it is OK to be mad, mad at yourself, your kids, your partner, your job, your parents, your spouse or just trying to figure out why you're mad. &amp;nbsp;Get with a crowd on twitter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I read a &lt;a href="http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2010/02/10/twitter-can-save-your-life/"&gt;post&lt;/a&gt; not long ago that helped me understand the essence of twitter.  It is a creative tool that allows me the freedom to explore my worlds.  As a husband, dad, lover, professional, Christ seeker, all can be discussed and shared with people...real people just like me that are interested in the same things that I am.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;In my first week of tweeting I found help with so many things. &amp;nbsp;Like sifting through social media outlets, I found&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/AmberCadabra"&gt;Amber&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;amp; &amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/juliealbaugh"&gt;Julie&lt;/a&gt;. &amp;nbsp;Need some good advice on sales &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/EricBlumthal"&gt;Eric&lt;/a&gt; always post some great links to articles. &amp;nbsp;Do you feel compelled to take on responsiblity and test your leadership abilities?&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/eschreyer"&gt;  Authentic leadership &lt;/a&gt;will help motivate you. &amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/playgrounddad"&gt;Do you want to be a better Dad?&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;You can follow Dad's that are divorced, re-married, stuggling in marriage, wanting to be married or&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/playgrounddad"&gt;blending families.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I am excited about the weeks ahead. &amp;nbsp;Who knows what I might be following, debating or learning. &amp;nbsp;I might even catch on to the #, FF and other symbols that mean things to most but little to newbies like myself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Thanks Twitter!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-6543450552660870738?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/6543450552660870738/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/dear-twitter.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6543450552660870738'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6543450552660870738'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/dear-twitter.html' title='Dear Twitter...'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-6149724824835924153</id><published>2010-03-23T12:01:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:03:42.716-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Why twitter works...against you.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Again I have to give credit to my &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/BenABaker"&gt;co-worker &lt;/a&gt;on this one.&amp;nbsp; He shared a tweet this week that really sums up where twitter is heading.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Some of you might have heard the story about an over weight &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/yjjjyjn"&gt;Hollywood executive that got kicked off of a plane for taking up too much room.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Unfortunately the airline didn't realize that this passenger had more than a million followers on twitter!&amp;nbsp; He proceeded for the next few hours to just punish the airline with his humorous anecdotes on his experience. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;There is an obvious lesson here, right...something about watch what you say, or write...or post...or god forbid tweet!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Even though my trip to the bookstore has seemingly validated my new fascination with &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/"&gt;twitter&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; "&lt;a href="http://redcouch.typepad.com/weblog/twitterville.html"&gt;Twitterville&lt;/a&gt;", "&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0596802811/?tag=googhydr-20&amp;amp;hvadid=2937057661&amp;amp;ref=pd_sl_57p2gj7s8m_e"&gt;The twitter book&lt;/a&gt;", "&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Twitter-Dummies-Laura-Fitton/dp/0470479914/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1266350165&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Twitter for dummies&lt;/a&gt;", "&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Sams-Teach-Yourself-Twitter-Minutes/dp/0672331241/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1266350229&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Twitter in 10 minutes&lt;/a&gt;" &amp;amp; "Twitter Tips" are just a few of the titles that have made there way onto the shelves in the last 7 days.&amp;nbsp; I have some concerns about me &amp;amp; twitter.&amp;nbsp; I realize in our new found relationship we will hit peaks and valleys, good days and bad, maybe even break up a time or two.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I need to work on managing my expectations anyway.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Seriously...what if people don't like me or what I say, or wirte...or post...or tweet.&amp;nbsp; What if I say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, wear the wrong thing, parent the wrong way, husband the wrong way, or post something that just offends someone...or worse piss off someone with a gagillion followers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;How long until my kids are tweeting about what an awful parent I am...with two (2) in junior high I am accused of this often.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Are we now in such a social revolution that your reputation is based more on how your write, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/natedog138" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;tweet&lt;/a&gt; and post.&amp;nbsp; Does your &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; following carry more weight than a personal reputation?&amp;nbsp; Concerning...it takes a lifetime to build ones integrity, only to be shattered by twitters voice.&amp;nbsp; I am cautiously pressing on with you twitter...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-6149724824835924153?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/6149724824835924153/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/why-twitter-worksagainst-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6149724824835924153'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6149724824835924153'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/why-twitter-worksagainst-you.html' title='Why twitter works...against you.'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-6900432103271327352</id><published>2010-03-18T11:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:04:12.160-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Celebrate your parenting.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;You might think having an X wife is painful...well it is. But it's great that we can put aside the petty squabbling about money, parenting or scheduling and still relish the little parenting victories that come our way. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;About a year ago I realized I was spending too much time TALKING about values with my kids and not enough time living them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; I used the holiday season and shopping for holiday gifts as a prime "teachable" moment on the importance of giving.&amp;nbsp; Not to mention the ability to help them establishing a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://life.familyeducation.com/money-and-kids/money-management/47966.html" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;budget!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; It is always easy to talk about the importance of gift giving, but I realized taking the time to show them the process was invaluable. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Last year I decided to give them a small budget of $20 to do all of their&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Christmas shopping. (Kids ages are 12, 12 and 9) I had them make a list of people they wanted to buy for and coached them on a few I thought should make the list.&amp;nbsp; We talked about how it is not the size or cost of the gift, but finding something that is unique and from the heart.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;"What makes gift giving special is to see someone's face when they realize you put time and effort into finding a special gift...just for that person", I lectured.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;No question this was hard for them and for me.&amp;nbsp; It tested my patience countless times, I must have heard a dozen times each... "I can't find anything", "Everything I want is too much money"...eh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;We had to get creative and make cards for some and artwork for others, but after several trips to dollar stores, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.walmart.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;Wal-Mart&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.target.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;Target&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; and the constant whining from my 12 year old daughter we finally completed our task.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Fast forward to this year we did the same thing, with about the same result, maybe a little less complaining. Amazingly our youngest son deserves a little credit, he was so proud of the little things he found, even a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com/Candle_Wedding_Favors.html" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;$1 fragrance candle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; for the cleaning lady!  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;For his Mom's and Step Dad's birthday (They are only a few days apart…trust me, it has take a long time to set aside my pride and shop for their Step Dad!) he decided on some &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.starbucks.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;Starbucks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; ground coffee.  He recognized that his Mom always enjoyed the "treat" of getting &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.starbucks.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;Starbucks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; and thought it would make a great gift to give. Little did he know that the night he gave them the gift, his Mom &amp;amp; Step Dad drove past Starbucks and were discussing what a treat it might be to try the ground &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.starbucks.com/" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;Starbucks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt; from the grocery store!  You can imagine the look on their face when they opened his gift. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;That night while he was being tucked in he said, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;    &lt;u2:smallfrac val="off"&gt;    &lt;u2:dispdef&gt;    &lt;u2:lmargin val="0"&gt;    &lt;u2:rmargin val="0"&gt;    &lt;u2:defjc val="centerGroup"&gt;    &lt;u2:wrapindent val="1440"&gt;    &lt;u2:intlim val="subSup"&gt;    &lt;u2:narylim val="undOvr"&gt;   &lt;/u2:narylim&gt;  &lt;/u2:intlim&gt; &lt;/u2:wrapindent&gt;he loves giving gifts and watching the person's face when they open it. He's nervous for a minute because he's not sure if they'll like what he picked out, but they when they do he feels really good."&lt;/u2:defjc&gt;&lt;/u2:rmargin&gt;&lt;/u2:lmargin&gt;&lt;/u2:dispdef&gt;&lt;/u2:smallfrac&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;br style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;For those of us who beat ourselves up for some of our parenting shortcomings...sit back and celebrate your victories too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-6900432103271327352?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/6900432103271327352/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/you-might-think-having-x-wife-is.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6900432103271327352'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6900432103271327352'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2010/02/you-might-think-having-x-wife-is.html' title='Celebrate your parenting.'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-1698727361858647881</id><published>2010-03-12T08:08:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:05:02.267-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Re-Thinking Social Media.</title><content type='html'>I just started blogging…and social media has been an early target for me.  I have a hard time understanding the relevancy of self-promotion and self-branding.  Pompous, Arrogant, and Selfish…timewaster... are still top of mind.  However, this week I had a few experiences that are giving me a new perspective.  Hey…I am not jumping ship here, only making an observation, MAYBE there is some VALUE to social media. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I regularly read Erin Schreyer’s blog http://sagestone.wordpress.com  she is enthusiastic about what she does, passionate about sharing success and as far as I can tell…authentic.  Never met her…which since I have never met her…  how   can   I…..getting side tracked.  (Reference my past blast on you can’t formulate an opinion on someone via social media)  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Erin shared in her latest blog was fascinating to me.  As much as I joke and criticize those who choose to tweet their lives away…she found a motivational tool.  She tells a great story of taking a 100 mile cycling challenge!  Quite a feet, and along the way she thought it would be cool to share her experience with her twitter nation.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What she got was totally unexpected…she received something powerful…tweets and re-tweets!  At a point in her journey when she thought it was over…couldn’t find motivation to finish, and her legs shot…who’d of thunk it….twittering.  Her nation bombarded her with notes of encouragement and motivation, she easily finished the race.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another experience that has me waffling was at a luncheon that highlighted a company re-inventing themselves.  Not uncommon in the business world and these stories are always fascinating to me.  Here we have a travel company whose business was in a serious downturn, they sold high-end vacation incentive packages to fortune 500 companies…suits…conservative type business folk.  Cutting exotic incentive trips in today’s economic climate...easy decision for them.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a few weeks you will be hearing about www.ZipSetGo.com .  The travel industry may not be the same after this hits.  They are taking advantage of their expertise in the travel industry and delivering it to the masses via blogs, tweets and postings.   You can get as much information as you need about any place you desire, no pretty brochures or canned videos, but real information from people who are there!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They have hired people to travel the world, keeping us up to date on everything from hiking, bungee jumping, dining, hotels, museums and beaches.  Without giving too much away, can you imagine following someone on twitter that is traveling to a destination you might be considering!  How cool is that.  &lt;br /&gt;There was no surprise when someone from the audience asks…”How do I get that job!” &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They have put together a great team, innovative platform, and have a clear vision…they are launching in October.  I smell a success story…social media included.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-1698727361858647881?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/1698727361858647881/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/rethinking-social-media.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1698727361858647881'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1698727361858647881'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/rethinking-social-media.html' title='Re-Thinking Social Media.'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-1745668296647662731</id><published>2010-02-25T07:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T11:05:38.820-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Family Traditions</title><content type='html'>We have all been through our share of family traditions over the last few weeks.  I love family traditions, cutting down our Christmas tree, annual ski day, and camping are a few of mine.  As parents we hope these traditions are carried forward.  This year we added tradition that my parents gave me when I was a child…it just took me a long time to apply it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My kids have been through an emotional roller coaster over the last 6 years and in my humble opinion they are quite remarkable.  Consider &lt;a href="http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/talk/help_child_divorce.html"&gt;living through divorce&lt;/a&gt;, remarriages, step parents, step siblings, different homes, different rules etc. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I often wondered how I could possibly contribute to my kids having a better life than what my parents provided me, considering all the noise that surrounds their lives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was quite lucky to grow up in a small town, roaming the woods, alleys and riding my bike across town were just things I did.  My parents love me; they prepared me for life, taught me to be responsible and respectful, and taught me about Gods love and the ultimate gift of Grace. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can’t tell you how I fell into the trap of selfish love.  Maybe it was because as a child I felt like I never got what I wanted, a bmx bike or motorcycle.  Doesn’t &lt;a href="http://www.freudfile.org/"&gt;Freud&lt;/a&gt; suggest all our adult issues relate back to our relationship with our parents? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Selfish love is easy. &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oscar_Wilde"&gt; Oscar Wilde&lt;/a&gt; said, “&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things that make me feel good are easy to find…&lt;a href="http://www.govacationsgolf.com/"&gt; golf trips&lt;/a&gt;, drinking, sex, and money.  Perusing night clubs for women was fun and exciting.  Enjoying beers with friends was comfortable and made me feel accepted.   Having titles and money made me feel important.  Having empathy for others was not on my radar screen. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God’s love is Hard.  &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+13&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;God teaches&lt;/a&gt; us Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-control.  What we sometimes fail to understand…this is what God wants us to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;GIVE&lt;/span&gt; to others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It takes a lot of wisdom to understand what creating a better life for our children really means and I understand it means different things to different people.  For me, the focus has shifted from the material world to the spiritual world.  If my job as a parent is providing a solid foundation that will support them throughout their lives… teaching Gods love is a must.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-1745668296647662731?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/1745668296647662731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/12/family-traditions.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1745668296647662731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1745668296647662731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/12/family-traditions.html' title='Family Traditions'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-7638628926039729220</id><published>2009-09-14T08:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T09:11:41.168-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Join a group...don't follow a feed!</title><content type='html'>&lt;meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; 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Becoming a fan of…following me on…getting linked too or sharing my space, doesn’t make you connected!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;I know your arguement...it is more productive to join online groups, post messages, and respond to emails, it is &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;"the way"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; we communicate now...I get that. But really, why did you join the group? Take me for example, I joined a few groups in my youth…some official, some not so official. As a kid, I think it started with my love of sports, being on a team fueled my need to be amongst people. William Schutz, a well known American psychologist, identified 3 needs in humans: inclusion, control, and affection. In my youth I always felt included. As a kid this was probably OK and fairly normal, but this pretty much screwed with me as I transitioned into adulthood. I had this notion that everything I did was about making me feel included, which translated into my happiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;In college I joined a fraternity, hanging with friends, no purpose…just hang out, play sports, host parties and meet girls. In college…I always felt included. A few years after college I joined the married group…married my college girlfriend. We traveled with other couples, vacationed with friends, bought a nice home in the same neighborhood as friends. In the married club…I always felt included. So these groups and clubs were great at the time, but what did they really offer me. What did I offer them? Did I even know why I was in the club…oh yeah, I almost forgot…. I was included and it made me feel good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Trust me, without purpose and understanding why you are in a group or a club; they just come to an end, so choose wisely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It took me a long time to understand the real benefits of joining a group. Inclusion can certainly make you feel good, but getting through life isn’t about feeling good. There comes a time when you have to draw a line in the sand and say, “This is me…this is where I am going.” A good group will help you define this; professional, therapeutic, social, or a marriage, will mold you as a person, challenge you do things that you thought you couldn’t, support you when you’re struggling, listen to you when no one else will, provide constructive feedback and offer you a helping hand. You won't find these qualities when browsing tweets, re-tweets, status updates and postings. Listen X &amp;amp; Yer’s, I am not suggesting give up on your twitting, but when you are ready…I mean really ready to advance yourself…find a good group, join it and contribute. Maybe then you will have something worthwhile to post.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-7638628926039729220?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/7638628926039729220/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/join-groupdont-follow-feed.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/7638628926039729220'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/7638628926039729220'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/join-groupdont-follow-feed.html' title='Join a group...don&apos;t follow a feed!'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-6200518871289339068</id><published>2009-09-10T07:26:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T09:12:18.480-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Business'/><title type='text'>Exercise for your business...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;“It has been my observation that most people get ahead during the time that others waste   time.”&lt;/span&gt;            &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"&gt;Henry Ford&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to J.T. Packard, a world leader in providing network critical power equipment, power outages in the United States cost businesses $152,000 every minute.  Do you know what your number is?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In today’s market we need to deliver faster, better and more reliably than ever before.  If you are a business owner or a “C” level executive, consider the following exercise and challenge your staff to help quantify the value of your network to the business.   When business is looking at every conceivable alternative to save money, this exercise is certainly worth the effort.  You may be surprised at what you uncover and even more amazed when you see what cost you can eliminate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;NEEDS ANALYSIS&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-How many power or network outages have we had in the last 24 months?&lt;br /&gt;-What have we spent on repairs, including overtime to resolve issues?&lt;br /&gt;-How many opportunities have we lost due to outages?&lt;br /&gt;-What is the dollar value of lost revenue?&lt;br /&gt;-What are we currently spending on utilities for our server room?&lt;br /&gt;-What is the cost of the space for our server room?&lt;br /&gt;-What are we spending each month on connectivity?&lt;br /&gt;-What is the dollar value of lost efficiencies?  If an employee can only do 30% of their work when  the network is unavailable…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever the outcome of this exercise, your team will have a great understanding of their business unit and ultimately helps them become better decision makers for your company.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-6200518871289339068?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/6200518871289339068/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/exercise-for-your-business.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6200518871289339068'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/6200518871289339068'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/exercise-for-your-business.html' title='Exercise for your business...'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-520581064289244888</id><published>2009-09-08T11:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T09:12:48.594-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Fashion First?</title><content type='html'>I dated a girl once that always believed in Fashion First.  It was pretty cool too, at least the first few weeks.  I thought it was great she always wanted to look "hot" or "sexy"...it felt good with her on my arm.  I thought I was pretty cool having a woman, 8 years younger, all gussied up and hangin' with me.  Unfortunately I found out quickly she wasn't about me...it was all about promoting herself.  She was always prepared for whomever she may encounter.  Luckily for me I bailed.   She was married twice before and has been married twice since and that was 3 years ago.  One of the few good decisions I have made.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a few months the freshness of facebook and twitter will be lost in their own media mockery.  I see consultants everywhere pushing social media conferences and training sessions...How your company will benefit from facebook?  Why you need to use twitter to promote your business?  C’mon isn’t your facebook a long list of soccer updates, mommy meet-ups and family vacation photos.  Don't get me wrong I love the novelty of it all.  I spend a few minutes each day sifting through post and catching up on friends and family news…which is exactly what it should be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think most people are average Joe's just like me.  I have a family, friends and a company that provides me a paycheck... and all with dreams, ideas and priorities.  Their goals and aspiration's are just as important, if not more important, than mine.  I hope as we go through this latest trend that we don't forget the people that support us.  This is the root of my frustration with social media.  It seems we are becoming obsessed with instant self-promotion and having to feel as though our lives are so important and fulfilling that everyone should follow it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately this has become an endless supply of noise that only a few have the time to muddle trough.  If I am a business owner or manager...I pull the plug.  Save that stuff for your own time in your home office.  As a business community we need to focus on the basics...teach our people to be responsible and promote value and service, dig deep to find what makes your company unique...and guess what...having a facebook or twitter is not the answer to more sales... is just makes you fashionable.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-520581064289244888?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/520581064289244888/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/fashion-first.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/520581064289244888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/520581064289244888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/09/fashion-first.html' title='Fashion First?'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5043413301409784676.post-1622586010540551000</id><published>2009-08-28T09:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T09:14:21.144-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Social Media'/><title type='text'>Social Media – Are we more concerned with falling behind or leading?</title><content type='html'>&lt;meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; 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 &lt;/span&gt;When was the last time you could get a “vibe” or “gut” feeling from a text message?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How can you interpret body language from a tweet?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;As we continue to feed this generations thirst for immediate gratification…where does it end.&lt;span style=""&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;How is this going to impact our ability to develop strong leaders?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Diving even deeper, what is the impact of immediate gratification on our economy?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I think we are in a Spontaneous Reactionary Economic Condition.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This can’t be good, but don’t get too worried, you won’t find that term anywhere…I just made it up.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Point# 2. &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Please just stay the course. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Social media is feeding an already increasing trend of “job hopping”.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Today, employees are bombarded with opportunities that provide bigger titles, corner office and fatter paychecks.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Heck, I get daily updates in my mailbox of jobs in my field and in my city. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Since the mid 90’s I have seen resume’s change.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;No longer do you see people working for a company for 7, 10, 15 years.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I understand the value of taking new positions and moving your career forward, but when times are tough and things get hard, leaders emerge. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Leaders develop from learning to manage through crisis.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The best leaders don’t react they transform.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How can you be an effective leader if you continue to live off of your successes?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;How can you develop talent and leaders when employees are constantly on the move? &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Point# 3.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;We just react.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In the course of business, effective leaders have always surrounded themselves with people they trust, people that are forthright with thoughts and information.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;These are people that can be counted on to listen to every hair brained idea and give you fair and constructive feedback.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Maybe it’s a board of directors or an inner circle, whatever you call it; a leader needs PEOPLE to make decisions.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I see a dangerous trend of discounting personal interaction.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You cannot effectively have a conversation and make good decisions via email or instant messaging.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We are creating an environment that discounts personal interaction.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Our culture today seems to be all about making decisions on the fly.…a click of a mouse or slight movement of thumbs and you react.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Let’s not forget about work ethic; when did learning to worker smarter not harder, turn into, just not working?…hmmm.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Email, Facebook, Myspace, Twitter are prime examples of how we are cultivating a spontaneous reactionary culture.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Are we more afraid of falling behind than leading?&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Point# 4.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;Convergence of worlds.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Maybe I am the only one that is uncomfortable with my clients and prospect seeing my vacation photos, but when did it become OK to mix work circles, social circles, and inner circles?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I realize this point is probably pointing to more of a health/wellness issue rather than economics, but companies need to be cautious here.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The old cliché “it only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch” is certainly worth a look. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Why would you want your employees listing their employers on social media sites? I realize the ability to expand you network and reaching potential clients is huge, but what about the pitfalls.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;People make mistakes every day, do you want those mistakes instantly available to the world.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I have a hard time seeing through all the clutter, but for my time, the juice is not worth the squeeze.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Nathan&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5043413301409784676-1622586010540551000?l=nathanstires.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/feeds/1622586010540551000/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/08/social-media-are-we-more-concerned-with.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1622586010540551000'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5043413301409784676/posts/default/1622586010540551000'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nathanstires.blogspot.com/2009/08/social-media-are-we-more-concerned-with.html' title='Social Media – Are we more concerned with falling behind or leading?'/><author><name>Nathan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02235198523401390049</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_jLOq-crJgXc/SrOfyOJXpPI/AAAAAAAAAzM/SaLk6imYQyw/S220/Natedog.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
